Intended Parents

Finding a Surrogate Mother For Gay Couples


For gay couples looking to become parents, finding a surrogate is an essential part of the journey.

Surrogacy agencies specialize in connecting intended parents with suitable surrogate mothers for gay couples.

Get connected to an available surrogate now through a surrogacy professional. When you have embryos ready you can match with a surrogate in an average of 1 - 4 months.

This article outlines the surrogacy process, the benefits of using an agency, and what to consider when choosing a surrogate.

How Surrogacy Agencies Help Gay Couples Looking for a Surrogate [6 Steps]

Working with a surrogacy agency simplifies the process of finding a surrogate for gay couples. Here’s a step-by-step overview of how surrogacy agencies assist you:

  1. Initial Consultation: Agencies begin with a comprehensive consultation to understand your goals and preferences.
  2. Create your intended parent profile: Your intended parent profile will be share information about your family with potential surrogates who can get excited about helping you. If you don’t have embryos available, agencies will connect you to resources to help you create or find embryos for your surrogacy journey
  3. Find a surrogate: When you have embryos ready, you can connect with a pre-screened surrogate.
  4. Medical clearance: Your surrogate will connect with your medical provider for a final medical check to assure she is ready for pregnancy.
  5. Matching agreement: Your agency will facilitate the matching process, helping you make plans together on what to expect for your pregnancy.
  6. Legal and Medical Support: your surrogacy agency will provide guidance on legal matters and connect you with medical professionals as you complete your family-building journey.

Ready to get started? If you have embryos ready you can view available surrogacy situations and get connected to a surrogacy professional.

Benefits of Using an Agency

One of the key advantages of working with a surrogacy agency is the short wait times. Great agencies have processes and networks that often lead to faster matches compared to independent searches.

Learn more about how quickly you can find a match here.

Agencies conduct comprehensive screenings of potential surrogates for gay couples, ensuring they meet medical, psychological, and emotional criteria. This thorough vetting process offers peace of mind for intended parents.

Learn more about screening best practices here.

Navigating the matching process can be daunting. Agencies provide personalized matching assistance, making it easier for gay couples looking for a surrogate to find someone who fits their specific needs and values.

Qualities to Consider When Choosing a Surrogate

When selecting a surrogate, it’s crucial to consider several key qualities:

How Much Does a Surrogate Cost for a Gay Couple?

The cost of a surrogate for a gay couple can vary significantly, but generally ranges from $169,900-$179,000+. This amount typically includes:

Things like medical expenses and egg or sperm donation can add costs depending on your situation.

Look for agencies that provide financial protection and share costs up front, ensuring transparency and clarity about what you’re paying for.

Find a Surrogate Now

Finding a surrogate mother for gay couples is a significant step toward building your family.

Get help from a surrogacy professional and get access to valuable resources, support and expertise that can streamline the process.

Frequently Asked Questions

How much does a gay couple surrogate cost?

The cost can range from (insert cost range short code here), depending on various factors, including the surrogate’s compensation and agency fees.

Can a gay couple have a surrogate mother?

Yes, gay couples can absolutely have a surrogate mother, and many choose this path to build their families.

Where is gay surrogacy available?

Gay surrogacy is available in many countries, including the United States, Canada, and several European nations. Each location may have different legal implications, so it’s essential to consult with an agency familiar with your desired area.

What are the options for gay surrogacy?

The primary option for gay couples is to work with a gestational surrogate, who carries an embryo created using the intended father(s)’ sperm and an egg donor’s egg.

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