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Dealing with secondary infertility is never easy, but there are ways to move forward. You can still pursue your dream of starting or growing your family.
In this guide, we’ll examine:
You can contact a surrogacy professional to learn how people like you have moved on from secondary infertility and successfully used other family-building options. But, continue reading for tips on how accepting secondary infertility is possible.
Before we describe how to deal with and accept a secondary infertility diagnosis, we want to acknowledge the difficulty of this diagnosis.
Because you were able to have a child in the past, you likely were surprised when your doctor came to you with a secondary infertility diagnosis. Knowing you aren’t alone is important and secondary infertility is common – it’s just as common as primary infertility.
But, just because secondary infertility is common doesn’t mean it’s easy to accept. Infertility counselors and support groups can help you work through your emotions.
Your surrogacy specialist can help you navigate the challenges of secondary infertility, connecting you with counseling and educational resources.
While men and women experience secondary infertility, this diagnosis can be especially hard for women. In the article “Coping With Secondary Infertility” by Anne Machalinski, Jill Valentino, a grade school teacher, struggled for five years to have her second child and experienced dismissive doctors early in her journey.
“I didn’t know that there was a name for what I was going through and didn’t really talk about it much,” Valentino said. “Until I started Googling, I had never even heard of secondary infertility.”
Although secondary infertility is common, people experiencing this diagnosis often feel shame or dismissed because of some common misconceptions.
Accepting secondary infertility doesn’t mean you’re giving up on your dream. Accepting secondary infertility means you know your diagnosis and are moving forward.
Some common solutions for people accepting secondary infertility include:
There’s nothing wrong with changing your family-building goals and having one child. Take all the time you need to determine that having one child is the right choice for you.
Doctors can try many fertility treatments to help men and women overcome secondary infertility. Some common infertility treatments include:
Sometimes, people need extra help to conceive, and that’s OK. The following options involve other people outside your couple who can help you build your family.
A surrogacy involves you (intended parents), a surrogate, and typically, a surrogacy agency.
During a surrogacy journey, a surrogate undergoes IVF (with your gametes or donor gametes). If IVF is successful, the surrogate will carry your child to term, and you will go home with your baby once they are born.
While you could choose to go through surrogacy on your own, there are many benefits to working with surrogacy agencies. Agencies will provide you with:
You also could choose to adopt a child with the help of an adoption agency. There are several types of adoption, including domestic infant adoption.
In this process, a woman experiencing an unplanned pregnancy chooses adoption for her baby. She makes an adoption plan and selects the adoptive family she believes will give her baby a life full of love, security and opportunity.
You can click here to learn more about adopting a baby.
Accepting secondary infertility isn’t easy. But, once you process your emotions and figure out what you want, you can forge a path forward. Contact us today to find out about your family-building options and to start making your plan.
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