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Becoming a gestational carrier is a beautiful journey. The women who take this path create a wonderful relationship with those hoping to become a parent and help them bring the child they’ve always dreamed about into the world.
If you’re considering becoming a gestational carrier, the same experiences are available to you. But, you must first meet the necessary surrogate qualifications. To get more information about surrogate mother qualifications, reach out to a surrogacy professional today.
Being a surrogate isn’t for everyone. It’s a process that requires a great deal of time, energy and commitment, so it’s important that a prospective surrogate be 100 percent prepared before she begins. That’s why certain qualifications to be a gestational surrogate exist — to ensure that every surrogate candidate is medically and emotionally ready for the journey ahead.
In the meantime, we’ve listed some of the most common qualifications for surrogate mothers below.
While every professional has the right to set its own list of gestational carrier qualifications, many follow the same guidelines set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Experts in the assisted reproduction field have come together to set standards for gestational carriers that best predict a woman’s success in this journey moving forward.
You can read these recommended surrogate mother qualifications here, but we’ve summarized them for you below in three main categories: medical, emotional, and screening.
You know that being pregnant can be complicated and come with risks. A pregnancy that you carry for someone else is no different. Physical qualifications for being a surrogate ensure that you are capable of carrying a gestational pregnancy at minimal risk to yourself and the intended parents’ baby.
Professionals set physical qualifications to be a surrogate based on what can prove your ability to safely carry a child for someone else. Of course, every agency’s guidelines are different, but these are the basic required standards you must meet to become a gestational carrier:
If you meet these basic surrogate qualifications, you may be a good candidate for surrogacy. It’s always a good idea to contact a professional, even if you don’t meet a certain qualification; many professionals approve surrogates on a case-by-case basis and may make an exception to the rules.
However, if you are not of a proper age or have not been pregnant before, you will be hard pressed to find a surrogacy professional or clinic that will approve you moving forward with the surrogacy process.
Qualifying as a surrogate is about more than just meeting medical requirements. Every woman considering this path should be aware of the emotional and psychological challenges of this journey before they get started.
When you become a surrogate, you commit yourself (and your family) to a partnership of a year or more with intended parents. You will have to give up a great deal of your time and energy to help them become parents. You’ll be attending doctor’s appointments before and throughout your pregnancy, and you’ll need to set up meetings and calls with your intended parents as your pregnancy progresses. Being a surrogate is like a full-time job, so it’s important that you and your spouse are prepared for the extra stresses it may cause in your everyday routine.
At the same time that you handle your everyday responsibilities, you will also be coping with the hormonal changes (and emotional stressors) of being pregnant. While it’s rare for a surrogate to get “attached” to the baby she is carrying, it’s normal to feel some conflicting emotions during your pregnancy. Being in a solid emotional place before starting can help prepare you for this.
To qualify as a surrogate mother, you will need to speak in depth with a surrogacy professional, who will explain what you can expect moving forward and prepare you for the challenges you may experience.
If you think you meet the qualifications for being a surrogate, your next step will be to contact a surrogacy professional. You will typically fill out some initial application paperwork to confirm your eligibility, and a surrogacy specialist will likely talk to you about your application and answer any remaining questions you may have.
Before you can become a surrogate, you will need to undergo medical and psychological screening. Both of these will confirm your readiness to be a gestational carrier. First, you and your spouse will complete a psychological screening with a mental health professional. They will ask you about your feelings on surrogacy, as well as your plans for handling some of the practical and emotional challenges that may arise.
Once you match with intended parents, you will complete one last medical screening before starting the medical process of surrogacy. This will confirm that you are truly medically capable of safely carrying a pregnancy to term. At that point, you will finally be approved for surrogacy and be able to sign your surrogacy contract!
Becoming a surrogate means you will need to meet certain qualifications. But don’t let that discourage you. These qualifications are there to protect the safety of you and the baby. If you have questions about these qualifications, speak to a surrogacy professional now to get the answers you need.
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